More Stories of Life Outside the BOP

Because of my determination to understand this whole situation, I have found myself surrounded by a wonderful group of people who are all in the same position.  They have become my family and we rely on each other for so much.  Today I want to share some of the updates of their stories in hopes of answering some questions for other people out there facing similar futures.

One family was reunited about a year ago.  The gentlemen was of retirement age so finding a job was not a requirement for him.  He was released early to a half way house and found himself back with his family pretty quickly.  He ran into problems however dealing with probation services and his treatment program.  Keep in mind that probation, in these cases, is NOT there to help them reintegrate into society.  They believe that these guys are scum and that they WILL re offend, it is only a mater of time, so they are not nice at all.   But this gentleman did not do everything exactly when and how they told him to do it.  Since he has been home, he has found himself in many difficult situations and is in a state of limbo right now.

Another husband came home last fall but was told a week or so before he was supposed to be released to the half way house that he was not going, he would have to stay until his actual release date.  When his release date was within a month, he was informed that he could not return to his home.  Probation Services never did a residency verification until it was time for him to come home and then decided that he could not live there.  The Justice system policy is that you can move back to your prior address with no problems, but they neglect to tell you that probation can make any decision they please regardless of the law or department policies.  The family got assistance from the public defenders office and manage to get a stay, so he could come home to his wife instead of the local homeless shelter with a future court hearing about his residency.  During his actual hearing the judge did allow him to return to his home and has now been allowed to stay there with his family.  He is still looking for employment but he is now living with his family.

A brother was finishing up his time at a local half way house and just two weeks before his release was told that he could not move in with his sister because of a local municipality's residency restriction.  He could not live with either of his other sisters for similar reasons.  His sister had to scramble to find an apartment for him to live in with in the community, and apparently there is only one apartment that meets the communities tight residency restrictions.  Keep in mind that when any federal prisoner is released, one of their restrictions states that they can not associate with any other known felons, and yet residency restrictions put all the felons in one apartment building.   How does this make sense to anyone? 

And just this week, another son was reunited with his family as they picked him up from the BOP and dropped him off at the local half way house.  He still has time to serve, but now he is only a 15 minute drive from family and can call much more often without it costing an arm and a leg.  He is back in regular clothes and has begun the process of reintegrating into society.   He went through the drug and alcohol program while in Federal Prison, so in addition to his offender treatment he also has to continue the drug and alcohol treatment.  So in just his first week in the half way house, he has been to 2 different treatment programs and been summoned to Probation.  At probation, he was told his supervising officer was too busy in a meeting, he would need to come back.  Normally probation would not need to see anyone in a half way house because they are technically still under the supervision of the BOP, but again probation services can change the rules as they see fit.  This particular probation officer has commented in the past that these guys should not be allowed in the half way houses, and he is the first one in this particular house, so I think she is hoping to get on him earlier and crack down on what he can and can't do sooner, thinking that the half way house might be too lenient.

These are just a few of the varied stories and experiences that we have all been through.  I will keep everyone updated on their stories as well as my own.  We share a common experience which joins us together and it has become surprising to me as days pass to learn of others and their experiences with law enforcement on the sex offender label.  New people that have come into my life and I learn of a connection to this side of the justice system, when they know nothing of my story.  It just reinforces for me the reality that this label is being over used and it will eventually change because it is touching everyone's lives.